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On not making meaning
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On not making meaning

coaching, meaning making, meaningfulness

On not making meaning

Since I lost all my previous blog posts, I’ve been having difficulty building the stock up. I’m stuck. They call this writers’ block, that’s the generic name anyway. The specific problem goes something like this: I have a small idea, something that’s occurred to me during the day. I start to write about it and then I get to the part where I have to bring it all together and wrap it up with some kind of pithy observation. Then I dry up, banality getting the better of me. I [...]

admin2018-08-21T20:32:17+00:0021 August 2018|coaching, meaning making, meaningfulness|0 Comments

My Excellent Memory
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My Excellent Memory

coaching, memory, misunderstanding, Uncategorised

My Excellent Memory

I am proud of my excellent memory. I know exactly what people said, what they wore, how the behaved, years back. No one queries it, which is how I know I’m right. I am currently visiting the apartment in Aix en Provence that I first visited as a fifteen year old. It’s not unusual to visit places you came to as a child, often you visit periodically over your life. I guess it’s slightly less usual to have had a forty year gap. Several things have struck me. First, I’d [...]

admin2018-08-21T19:50:49+00:0021 August 2018|coaching, memory, misunderstanding, Uncategorised|0 Comments

What I learned from losing my website
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What I learned from losing my website

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What I learned from losing my website

I lost my website a fortnight ago. It was my fault. I ignored an email that looked quite boring. It was from the hosting company, referring to something I didn’t recognise and asking me to update my card details, in itself a tedious task. I hadn’t kept a copy of the website (though I managed to retrieve bits of pieces of it). I especially hadn’t kept copies of the blog posts. I drafted them straight onto the site. There are so many morals from this sorry story that I hardly [...]

admin2018-07-03T13:48:04+00:0024 June 2018|loss, Uncategorised|1 Comment

Apology – pearl or pup?

Mediators make much of the value of apology in dispute resolution, but what does sorry mean and what should a mediator do with it? Often, it is part of the training - a whole session on apology and how important it is to acknowledge it and make sure the other party has heard it. Indeed, it’s not usual for one or both parties to enter a mediation insisting on an apology, so when the inexperienced mediator hears that, they think – bingo – my job’s done! I’ve always been [...]

admin2018-12-08T12:42:59+00:0011 January 2017|Apology, dispute resolution, Mediation|0 Comments

Dry Ski Slope Gate

First published November 2012 The row between the parents of the boy who missed the birthday party remains at the top of the news agenda despite the obvious fact that it’s a) trivial beyond speaking, b) embarrassing all round, c) awful for the kids and d) absolutely pathetic. Why are we still talking about it? Because we love a bit of argy bargy; each of us is, despite ourselves, taking a view on who’s right, who’s wrong; some of us are marshalling our opinions on what we think of birthday parties on dry ski [...]

admin2018-12-08T12:42:50+00:0010 January 2017|dispute resolution, Mediation|0 Comments

The Failed Mediation

First, let me say some mediations do fail. These are mediations were never going to result in agreement, resolution, or even a better understanding by the parties of their dispute. This might be for several reasons, but the commonest are that the mediator wasn't skilled and didn't do the job properly, and that the parties just weren't playing. But there's another outcome that is referred to as "failed" that is no such thing. This is the mediation (and I'm talking specifically civil and commercial here) that is set down for a [...]

admin2017-01-09T15:52:44+00:009 January 2017|Mediation|0 Comments

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